Feeling
overwhelmed, trying to force an outcome?
Are you frustrated when things don’t
happen as quickly as you think they should?
It may be necessary to simply be with the discomfort of not
knowing. The answer will come when it is
time and it will arrive with certainty when it has no charge to it.
It is human nature to be uncomfortable with
not knowing the outcome. Practice being
aware when there is a gap between your experiences and your response to
them.
Pause. Breathe. Meditate. This will bring clarity and understanding to
the situation. If you are reacting out
of frustration, you are limiting yourself to all the possibilities. Notice whether you are reacting automatically
or whether you are taking the time to respond.
If there is any doubt, the best way to respond is to wait!
Trust the process and go with the flow.
If
you understand, things are just as they are; if you do not understand, things
are just as they are. ~ Zen proverb
Are
you looking for yourself where you are not?
Are you
defining yourself through validation from your accomplishment or are you
seeking approval from others?
This is based on the illusions that you are
incomplete and you need something from the outside to be whole.
Are you getting a
sense of who you are from something or someone on the outside?
We are innately
born with everything we need to fulfill our divine purpose.
It is not about being perfect, it is about
being whole.
When we ignore our feelings
and our intuition, we avoid our true essence of who we really are. Exploring our interests, our wants,
identifying what makes us tick, could bring clarity by discovering our
Greatness.
Listening to that voice from
within, following our gut feeling can be a fun exploration.
Is there something you always wanted to try
but didn't have the time or the guts to do?
Maybe the time has arrived.
By
yielding you may obtain victory. ~ Ovid
Why
is this happening to me?
Paralysis through analysis
You may try to analyze what and how in order to
understand why you can’t move
forward.
You might be getting wrapped up
in trying to understand why this is
happening.
Creating doubt by getting absorbed in trying to figure this out and
waiting for an insight can become an excuse to avoid action.
You may not want to accept the reality of your
circumstances because you haven’t yet figured out the rhyme and reason of it.
Nevertheless, you have an obligation to yourself
to accept where you are at in the present moment.
Doing the next right thing is all that might
be necessary.
It may also be a time to
reflect why this particular lesson is
coming up so you can let go of it.
Are
there some buried resentments, ‘should haves’, or unforgiving feelings that you
are ready to let go of?
Taking care of
yourself can aid in the healing process. H.A.L.T. is an acronym for Hungry,
Angry, Lonely or Tired.
It is a great
benefit of the most basic areas in which you may neglect your own well-being.
The awareness will likely come when you’re in
a place of calmness and then you might then say, “Oh, now I see why that
happened.”
Life
can only be understood backwards, but must be lived forwards.
~ Soren
Kierkegaard
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